Is pink a girl’s color?
Is pink a boy’s color?
In the past few years, pink has become a hot fashion choice for men. Pro basketball and soccer players are wearing pink shoes, rock stars like Machine Gun Kelly are wearing hot pink and playing pink guitars, and even football players are wearing pink to ostensibly raise awareness for breast cancer.
Some people are aghast at that.
But why?
Historically, that’s a very masculine choice.
Society's Strange Programmed Gender Concepts Are All In The Pink
In the 19th and 20th centuries up through the 1940s, pink was considered a color for boys, as it was the lighter version of red, which was considered a powerful color for men. Blue was actually considered a “more dainty” color and was considered feminine. So women would wear blue, girls light blue.
Of course, none of this mattered in the least until the industrial revolution and the widespread manufacture of dyes and dyed clothing. Prior to that, in the mid-1800s and before, infants and toddlers wore white dresses, regardless of their gender. This was because white was easy to bleach out stains, and the dress style made it far easier to change diapers. Given that most houses didn’t have indoor plumbing, potty training in its current form was not yet anywhere near as widespread as it is today, and it was far easier for boys and girls to not have to drop trou and instead just lift skirt.
The switch from pink as a masculine color to a feminine color began in the mid-late 1940s, as various trends from Europe began to permeate American society post-WW2. Even so, pink continued to be seen as a color of wealth and royalty and style, hence Elvis Presley and many other rock stars looking to drive pink Cadillacs and the preponderance of “little pink houses” in the suburbs in the 1950s. In fact, it wasn’t until the repressive and conservative ’50s that there was truly a clear delineation of pink as a feminine color and blue as a masculine one.
In the 1960s and ’70s however, that switched. Baby boomers, rebelling against culture norms and sexist programming, rejected the ideas that any color could be inherently gender-biased, and rebelled against pink or any other color being seen as inherently slanted towards any gender. Punk rock used pink in posters, in open defiance of the cultural programming of it as a “feminine” color, in order to shock the squares.
It wasn’t until the early ’80s that the pink and blue as feminine and masculine began to upswing again, and the reason for it isn’t necessarily because of the swing towards conservatism during that time, it was due to, well, GREED. The rise of pre-natal imaging which allowed parents to see whether their child was biologically a boy or a girl opened the door to companies wanting to cash in on this with clothing items, furniture, nursery items and other costly accessories, which they figured they could make twice the money on if they divided them up into pink and blue for girls and boys.
Even so, the subculture continued to rebel against the delineation of color as a sexist trope, and in particular creative artists overtly subverted the conventions, most notably artists like Prince, who popularized the regal purple, and acts like Duran Duran and Culture Club, which wore bright pastels, regardless of any connotations as “feminine.”
With everyone from rock stars to rap stars to athletes following suit to subvert and rebel against conventions in ensuing decades, the use of pink has gotten to a point where it’s once more become a significant fashion statement of Gen Z, a sort of rebellious F-U to previous generations programmed to feel triggered or insecure by a simple color. Professional basketball and soccer players, rappers, and rock stars now routinely wear pink as a fashion statement, with everyone from Machine Gun Kelly to David Beckham’s Inter Miami soccer team to the Miami Heat to Barcelona to Juventus adopting pink jerseys as a statement of style and individualism.
But the thing I find most interesting of all of it is that once more this is a case of something completely neutral, which intrinsically has no meaning — a color — being charged with meaning by the pressures of societal mores, and what’s all the more ironic, that that meaning has, over the past 200 years, meant the complete opposite thing at various times, thus showcasing all the more how transient and ephemeral societal preferences are, and how they’re shaped so profoundly by the waves of public pressure one way or another.
Kind of intriguing.
It all shows how much society is brainwashed.
People are programmed from the time they are born to think a certain way, to associate certain things, to have positive or negative connotations to random items even though they don’t intrinsically hold any positive or negative meaning.
If you were blind or had no concept of color, and you were cold, and someone handed you a pink coat, would you care? No, you’d just put on the coat.
So why would someone who isn’t blind or does have a concept of color, when handed a pink coat, have a certain reaction to it — pro or con?
Because that’s how they’ve been programmed.
That’s how they’ve been brainwashed by society.
The only way to escape these things is by recognizing them. By recognizing how random and ultimately inconsequential they are, and that their consequence and importance to us is just an illusion that we’ve been programmed to consider serious at all.
And just like that, we can also program ourselves to stop thinking that way.
We can recognize that it’s ridiculous.
Not just in regard to the color pink, but in regard to many other things as well.
I’ll leave you to think about what those things might be.
I only ask that you try to step out of any preconceived notions or programming, and that YOU do the thinking for yourself.
Society's Strange Programmed Gender Concepts Are All In The Pink
Sean Leary is an author, director, artist, musician, producer and entrepreneur who has been writing professionally since debuting at age 11 in the pages of the Comics Buyers Guide. An honors graduate of the University of Southern California masters program, he has written over 50 books including the best-sellers The Arimathean, Every Number is Lucky to Someone and We Are All Characters.
Society's Strange Programmed Gender Concepts Are All In The Pink

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